How it works

Send a letter, find love.

1. Build your profile

Add 3 to 7 photos, your first name, age, gender, who you’d like to meet and your zip code. Then the fun part: what you do, three hobbies, three foods you love, your dream first dates in order, what you’re looking for, your beliefs and whether you have or want kids. We suggest answers as you go.

2. Find someone and text or email them for $1

Search by distance, age and gender, and filter by anything on a profile. When someone catches your eye, send them a mail by text or email. You pick how they look to you and tick which contact details to share: your number, a social handle, your email, or a mix. Your mail reads:

We send it to them by text, email or both, with a link to your profile. Texts go only to members who have turned texts on, and they come from our number, so nobody sees anyone’s phone number. Each mail costs one credit ($1), and you can mail each person once.

3. They make the next move

If they like what they see, they reach out to you directly using what you shared. If not, no reply is needed and nobody gets an awkward rejection. From there it’s just two people talking. We are not in the middle.

Your privacy

• Profiles and photos are only shown to logged-in members.
• Your phone number and email address are never shown. Contact details only go to someone when you tick them in a mail.
• Distances are rounded, so nobody can work out where you live.
• You can pause your profile, block or report anyone, and delete your account at any time.

What it costs

Joining, browsing and receiving mail are free. Sending a mail by text or email costs $1, bought in small packs. There is no subscription.